A little push in the right direction can go a long way.
GROUPS & AUDIO:
(my youtube channel!)
Cuddle Comfort: a site to find free (yes free!) or paid cuddle services all over the country.
Sacred Eros: A directory of tantra and sacred sexuality professionals around the world, who can guide you deeper if you need that.
I'm not cuddling in Portland anymore... I'm studying in Spain! If you happen to be in Madrid, reach out :)